Family Devotional Romans 13:8-14

For families with little ones (preschool age), this could be a 3-5 minute talk! It doesn’t have to be much. For older children, you can opt in for more of these options to extend your study time together. I recommend doing this with (especially little) children over a meal – whichever meal is the least chaotic in your home (for my family right now, that’s lunch), or saving the questions for while you’re on a walk or playing outside together. Have fun!

1. Read the scripture together: Romans 13:8-14. The important thing is that you’re reading scripture together! If you’re looking for different ways to engage your children while reading, here are some fun ways to read scripture as a family

• Every Reader takes a verse

• Ask each child to pick two words they don’t understand to talk about after you read it. (For longer scriptures and younger children, you may need to split up the reading in order to do this.)

• Draw a picture of what you read

• Act it out as a family (And please send documentation of this to children.sjumc@gmail.com because we could all use a laugh right now!)

• Sing it!

• Use Legos or dolls to tell the story

2. Tell your kids that this is the apostle Paul teaching a group of people called the Romans. He is talking about how all of our rules can be boiled down into one very important rule: Love your neighbor as yourself.

3. Discussion Questions (as always, pick and choose which questions you’d like to discuss!):

• Can you think of any of the 10 commandments? How many can you think of?

• Who is your neighbor?

• What does it mean to you to love your neighbor like you love yourself?

• Do you think you want the same things for everyone else in the world, that you want for yourself?

• Can you see how if you love your neighbor as yourself, you automatically follow all the other rules?

4. Close in Prayer: Dear God, thank you for rules that help teach us about each other and bring us closer to You. Thank you for teaching us that LOVE is bigger than all the rules, and when we LOVE like You, we obey the most important rules that help us care for each other. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

~ Erynne DeVore, director of Children’s Ministry

Devotional 9.3.20 Rick Meidel

I dislike being reminded of things. I like to know what needs to be done, get after it and mark it off the list. It’s a style that can be both a gift and a curse! As we finished our walk one evening, Natalie told me there were aphids on the beautiful flowers in one of our four planters. It was my second reminder. I had other things I needed to do and, being the end of the week, I was a bit tired as well. It didn’t rise to critical in terms of importance, but I dutifully went about mixing the spray. I sprayed the flowers. In fact, I sprayed the flowers in all four planters as a precautionary measure! Good for me! Mark that task off the list! The next night after our walk, my wife noticed the plants looked a bit wilted, even though she had watered them that morning. I ventured into the garage to check the concentrate I had used. Had I mixed it correctly? I was sure I had. Had the chemical expired? I doubt that would make a big difference. Suddenly, the cause became clear. The bottle of concentrated Round Up looks similar to the bottle of concentrated insect spray!

I dislike being reminded of things. Maybe that’s why I’m not really enjoying church all that much right now. Every Sunday I’m reminded - by either the pastors or the congregation - which lives matter. I’m being told how to feel. I’m being told ‘do this, don’t do that’ (“can’t you read the signs”….sorry, I couldn’t help myself). I feel like I’m getting a new to-do list every week. Being a Christian is becoming a full-time job! I try to do the right thing, or at least I think I’m trying, but it feels difficult to get these Christian to-do items marked off my list. That raises my anxiety and makes me wonder if I’m worthy as a person. When I feel this way, I begin making comparisons. I listen to a message and I begin thinking, ‘brother Bill and sister Sue sure need to hear today’s message; it wasn’t really meant for me; I hope they were listening.'

When I have these thoughts, I am reminded of Scripture: "Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do." James 1:23-25, NIV. Sometimes we want to use the Word as a magnifying glass to look at others. But James tells us that the Word is not a magnifying glass, but rather a mirror. A mirror for looking at oneself

I dislike being reminded of things. But I remember that there is good reason why we are getting these reminders every Sunday. Even with all the attention, the situation just isn’t getting any better. Not even close. We try to shirk off the Christian to-do list we are given by claiming blue lives matter or all lives matter. Of course they do! But when we do this as a way to avoid looking at oneself in the Christian mirror as it relates to Black lives matter, we do ourselves - and the world around us - a disservice. Our to-do list is really no more than this: Love our God and love our neighbor. Really love our neighbor. It’s not that difficult; we’re making it out to be more than it is. We can do so much better. We can be so much better, together

I dislike being reminded of things. I think about what were, once, beautiful flowers. I didn’t want to spray those stupid aphids. I went through the motions to get something else off my list and end the reminders. If I had only adjusted my attitude. If I had only been more focused. As an aside, I’ve been using this story at work during the past couple weeks as a way to communicate consequences when we’re distracted. Sure, my dead flowers don’t rise to the level of a serious consequence. But distractions while driving, or using tools or operating machinery, or doing virtually anything else can cause serious consequences. My dead flowers remind me that I need to be more focused, and more sincere, in working through my Christian to-do list. Love my God and love my neighbor. Look in the mirror and polish any of my rough edges. Shirking those responsibilities - not looking at oneself, and instead examining others - could result in serious consequences! I’m going to reflect on that and try to be better. I think I’ll enjoy church more with that change in attitude. Maybe you can try it with me. I’m praying for us! 

P.S. And I think the aphids lived!

Rick Meidel, his wife Natalie and daughter Sarah have attended St. John UMC since 2018. Rick can be reached at meidy@me.com or 832-418-9200.

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Family Devotional Romans 12:9-21

For families with little ones (preschool age), this could be a 3-5 minute talk! It doesn’t have to be much. For older children, you can opt in for more of these options to extend your study time together. I recommend doing this with (especially little) children over a meal – whichever meal is the least chaotic in your home (for my family right now, that’s lunch), or saving the questions for while you’re on a walk or playing outside together. Have fun!

1. Read the scripture together: Romans 12:9-21. The important thing is that you’re reading scripture together! If you’re looking for different ways to engage your children while reading, here are some fun ways to read scripture as a family

• Every Reader takes a verse

• Ask each child to pick two words they don’t understand to talk about after you read it. (For longer scriptures and younger children, you may need to split up the reading in order to do this.)

• Draw a picture of what you read

• Act it out as a family (And please send documentation of this to children.sjumc@gmail.com because we could all use a laugh right now!)

• Sing it!

• Use Legos or dolls to tell the story

2. Tell your kids that today’s Bible story is from the Book of Romans. The apostle (teacher) Paul wrote it. He lists instructions and ideas for a group of people called the Romans, and this book of letters to the Romans is included in the Bible today because the people who worked together to form the Bible under God’s calling felt there were important pieces of these ideas and instructions for us, too.

3. Discussion Questions (as always, pick and choose which questions you’d like to discuss!):

• What do you think it means to love without pretending? Is it real Love, if you’re pretending?

• What is something you’re enthusiastic about? How do you show your enthusiasm?

• How do you show your enthusiasm for God?

• Have you ever felt you’re better than someone else? What does that feel like in your body? How do you think the other person would feel if they knew?

• If someone hurts you, do you feel like hurting them back? (It is normal to want to. Our job is to not hurt them back.)

• Paul says to defeat evil with good. What do you think this means? Have you ever been kind to someone, after they were mean to you? How did they respond? (If someone continues to be unkind or unsafe to you, it is ok to give yourself space from this person, or do what you need to do to be safe. And, sometimes people are mean because someone else is cruel to them. We can be an example of God’s love to them – sometimes that is by being nice back to them, sometimes it is by taking our space from them, sometimes it means standing up for ourselves without hurting them back, sometimes it is by asking them how you can help them, if you can, and sometimes it is by praying for them.)

4. Close in Prayer: Dear God, thank you for Bible stories that continue to teach us, even thousands of years later! Thank you for giving us the strength to choose the good, true way – Your way. Even when it’s really hard to do that! Give us wisdom to know what to do when someone is mean to us, and to not be cruel back. Fill us with enthusiasm for You! We want to share this enthusiasm with the world. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

~ Erynne DeVore, director of Children’s Ministry

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